tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-486945191566423939.post8357036786051322014..comments2012-02-21T11:57:42.259-05:00Comments on "JUST BE": КАК ПРАВИЛЬНО СТРОИТЬ ОТНОШЕНИЯ?Bor Eliza (aka B.E)http://www.blogger.com/profile/17093383402626410548noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-486945191566423939.post-46491827497863699202012-02-21T11:57:42.259-05:002012-02-21T11:57:42.259-05:00HOW TO BUILD A RELATIONSHIP?
There is a famous aph...HOW TO BUILD A RELATIONSHIP?<br />There is a famous aphorism that people often offer to become a partner, friends, when they get to break the relationship, although this had to be started. Do not forget that the relationship between a man and a woman - is, first of all, the relationship of man with man, and to harmonize them apply the same methods that help to improve relations with all people. For some reason, we often forget about it, and finding their "soul mate" from beginning to present time it is too high demands, believing that too with a loved person, then you can relax and behave as it pleases, because he loves us and has understand. But, unfortunately or fortunately, nature has created us in a single copy, and there is nobody on the planet who could understand us completely. So remember the basics of building a good relationship: - Respect. Everyone has the right to express their opinion and taking their own decisions. Guided by the principle of "Who is not with us - the one against us," long-term relationship is unlikely to be built. - Community. In this case, I'm not talking about the exchange of facts and news, and the exchange of emotions and feelings. Tell your partner how you feel about certain events, try to understand how it applies to them. If your partner keeps his feelings to yourself, then you will for sure not worth the hassle - excessive closeness of the relationship makes false and unnatural. Try not to talk too much and roundabout allusions, remember a child's game of "blind" phone. Ask any man - he just knows better what you do not like it, than a month, you arrange a tantrum and tell him all at once, that had accumulated in his soul during this time. - Patience. To eat an apple, you must first plant a seed, grow a sapling, to give him the opportunity to bloom, and tie off. So with the relationship. Some feelings arise immediately, for the maturation of the other takes time. If you do something to improve your relationship, be prepared for the fact that the result may not appear immediately. But a tiny drop of sharpening hard stone, says the proverb. Give your partner some time to change internally. If you have planned a wedding soon, check out the most popular wedding superstitions. - Initiative. Relationships - a two-way road, but someone has to be the first. If you want to establish a relationship you have, then you and the first move. Probably the second. But if after that your partner does not meet the traffic you have to remember another rule, the old as the hills: - Love can not be by force. Unrequited love - one of the worst human experiences, and sometimes causes a person to do anything, anything, to force yourself to fall in love. Alas, the result of such behavior are usually completely destroyed relationships, draw the good that was in them before, frustration, humiliation and resentment for a lifetime.Bor Eliza (aka B.E)https://www.blogger.com/profile/17093383402626410548noreply@blogger.com