"JUST BE"

      Love...hmmm...we all want it...some want it so much they afraid to admit it ...some talk about it openly. What is this love? why we need it, can't we live without? is love always selfish? can we all reach or master just to love someone with no conditions?
      I've tried to master this for a long time...at first seemed to me that its mission impossible.  I was emerged in my own selfish reasons, in my own needs, in my "want" to receive. As the time  passed with much lessons along with it...I've slowly started seeing myself from the side and how pathetic I've been, behaving, loving only for my own sake, not taking into consideration the other persons feelings, wants, desires...I was clearly expecting something in return.
    What I've mastered and still learning ...is that love is pure, when you love someone and they love you , nobody owns anything, there is nothing to lose, because everything just IS... there is nothing to gain... because everything just Is-  there is no gain or loss..It is what It Is...!
  So far it has been an easy ride...going with the flow ...



Blah..blah...on "If you love something, set it free; if it comes back, it's yours. If it doesn't, it never was


I kinda think a little differently on this one. If you love something, to set it free sounds like you held it hostage. I probably wouldn't come back if I were held hostage, so to speak. If "it" loves you back there are no grounds to hold it hostage. Love is an emotion and if it fades it does not mean it never was or that you could have it again. OK, this is too deep....moving on.