Normalcy - Who Defines It?

normalcy can plague our lives. It dictates what we should or shouldn't do and questions everything we do in  less defined or cautious state of mind. To be, or not to be "normal". Right?

Normalcy also plagues our dating lives.

How often have you heard yourself explain someone you're dating (or would like to) as "normal"? Like it's a big plus and somehow we've just patted ourselves on the back for finding someone "normal"?

I say "wow". Stop. Who's defining normalcy? Me, you, the greater public? Is norm the new average, or simply what's safe...not too risky, not too crazy and oh so very predictable.

I'd venture to "normal" could hold us back from the "incredible", but we have to let go of normalcy to allow the incredible in.

Single? Yep.
Why? Tying myself to normalcy. Within reason, seek the incredible instead.